I get all sorts of questions asked posed to me all the time.
From the bakery.
"Is this fresh?"
From my family.
"Can I have some money, Dad? Puuuhleeeeze."
From myself even.
"I'm tired, maybe some take out tonight?"
The answer to these questions is another question. "What will the outcome look like if I continue to answer the question the same way for five years". This pretty much clears up any gray areas and really clarifies things for me.
From the bakery.
If I were to misrepresent the bakery I sold, we would be out of business in five years.
From my family.
Is it really in my best interest to just "give" money to my kids for the next five years?
From myself.
If I continue to make take-out part of my routine, what am I going to feel like five years from now?